“ But if it’s the first time I’m getting married, how do I know what to do? “
I’m sure you’ve thought this sentence too, at least once until now.
What are the steps to follow, assuming there is a specific order, what are the costs to be faced and where to start?
These are the initial doubts when deciding how to start in organizing the wedding.
How much confusion will there be in your head?
Now I will not dwell on the criteria for evaluating suppliers and their proposals – indeed, for this aspect I invite you to read the post dedicated to the subject – but I will tell you how often we find ourselves having to make more general decisions.
- Before even starting a real search, stop for a moment.
- Grab a pen and paper, close your eyes and try to think carefully about what you have been dreaming of since you were a child and what it represents to you.
- Maybe you have already shared it with your boyfriend and together you have already dreamed of what you would like to achieve – and perhaps you have even discussed some details a bit -.
It is only after you have a clearer idea of the place, the context, the type of party, that you can make the best choices that will reflect all these fundamental aspects.
Think about it: how can you think of finding the perfect location for you if you haven’t even imagined it yet ?
Today’s market is able to offer you any solution you are looking for ! In fact, you will find some that you can’t even remotely imagine right now.
My role in this case is fundamental, I am here to help the couple to evaluate together everyone and the pros and cons of each choice.
It will be easier for you (compared to other brides who do it independently) because, after having told me all the details, the search and selection of suppliers and professionals – who are right for you – will initially be up to me, so you will have to choose among a range of proposals, already filtered, that reflect your tastes and your budget.
And then what can help you will be the time at our disposal: the element that allows you to choose with the right calm.
This is the reason why I always advise to leave early (usually about a year earlier) and not to postpone until tomorrow what we can already do today – as long as it is done wisely.
Being ahead of a deadline does not generate anxiety, on the contrary, it charges us and gives us enthusiasm.
You enter that pleasant “vortex” from which it is almost a shame to leave once the preparations have been completed.
Not to mention how many unforeseen events we can avoid if we play in advance, we prevent them and, in the worst case scenario, we have all the time necessary to manage them in the best possible way.
So, in conclusion, even for the management of the preparations the right approach is to “let yourself go”: dreaming and imagining are not just beautiful words that you will often hear in the “world of weddings”. It is a real starting point to start the selection and arrive at the result you have always wanted.